I Yam what I Yam!!!

Why do I have the best time with people who do not expect me to treat them in any special way? And why is it that everytime, someone expects me to treat him/her with special attention, I do not care two hoots for them? Why is a conversation so interesting, when the other person is not hoping for you to say the right words? It feels so good to talk to someone who listens to what I say, rather than what they expect me to say...

Why do I feel hateful towards every person who wants me to make him/her feel nice? Why should I treat someone well just because they think I should? Is it too difficult for people to accept that I'm not the person, they think I am?